TBH, I myself don’t play music when I’m playing golf, but typically it’s not a problem when someone else plays music so far as it’s more of a soothing sound instead of raucous noise.
I prefer the martini tees that provide consistent height with the driver and the mini martini for my fairway woods and irons. I have been using the same 2 tees for over a year now due to their durability. The only need to worry about is finding them after you’ve made your shot.