StrokerAce Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Should you be 'cordial' with your competition on the golf course? Especially in a tournament? Curtis Strange doesn't think so... Which side are you on? Okay to chit chat between holes or stone-faced-killa ?? https://www.golfdigest.com/story/curtis-strange-rips-jon-rahm-and-andrew-landry-for-their-playoff-interactions Jon Rahm and Andrew Landry played superb golf from tee to green during their four-hole playoff at the CareerBuilder Challenge on Sunday. But one Hall of Famer had a problem with how the two young tour pros handled themselves on their walks from said tee to green. Rather than commenting on Rahm's win or Landry's toughness down the stretch, Curtis Strange chose to focus on how much Rahm and Landry talked in between shots. Apparently, Strange is not a big fan of friendly chit-chat when there's a tournament on the line. Curtis Strange ✔@golf_strange Watching Andrew Landry and Jon Rahm in playoff. Walking off tee talking to each other. Are you kidding me ? Talking at all. ? 7:14 PM - Jan 21, 2018 · Naples, FL ​ Strange was always known as a fierce competitor during his heyday (You have to be to win back-to-back U.S. Opens), and this isn't the first time we've heard older players lament the on-course chumminess of today's generation. Here's how Strange explained his reasoning for not talking during high-pressure situations: 13h golfingnj@Golfing_NJ Replying to @golf_strange Serious question: Is the issue that it appears less than competitive, or that it might negatively affect either of their focus? Curtis Strange ✔@golf_strange The issue is I don't want to make you a bit relaxed or comfortable. High pressure, good. 9:07 AM - Jan 22, 2018 · Naples, FL Fair enough. And here's how he compared it to going up against one of his contemporaries, Nick Faldo. 16h Jim Geruzzi@geruzzi_jim Replying to @golf_strange You and Faldo used to chat a bunch out there.. didn't ya? Curtis Strange ✔@golf_strange 0 words 7:23 PM - Jan 21, 2018 · Naples, FL The moral of the story? If you ever find yourself in a playoff against Curtis Strange and he's giving you the silent treatment, don't take it personally. cksurfdude 1 Quote Driver- Cobra Aerojet LS Woods- Cobra LTD 3w 15*, 5W 19*, F9 24* Irons- XXIO X (6-A) Wedges- Callaway Jaws Raw (54/58) Putter- Bettinardi BB56 Ball- Maxfli Tour X/Wilson Triad Buggy- Clicgear 4.0 Bag- Callaway Org 14/Fairway C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ole gray Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I think it all depends on who the players are and how they handle pressure. I could see Lee Trevino and Boo Weekly having a blast even during a playoff. Not so much if ya had Tiger Woods and Jack Nicklaus. The latter two would be pure focus with killer instincts while the first pairing would be wondering where the best fishing hole was. StrokerAce, cksurfdude, tommc23 and 3 others 6 Quote Ping G430 Max Driver 10.5 Degree Titleist TSR1 4, 5, & 6 Hybrids Titleist T350 Irons 7 - W48 Cleveland CBX ZipCore 52 56 & 60 Degree Wedges LAB Mezz Max Broomstick Putter / TPT Shaft (Platinum @ 45/78) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaskanski Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 If you have the mental ability to focus, then any other distraction is fine - including friendly chit chat. If on the other hand you're in your own bubble and seldom make even eye contact with your opponent, then you at least need to be courteous - especially when you lose. Personally, I tend to think that either stance seldom changes the outcome - so it is usually best to choose the option that gives the most satisfaction - for me, that it is a friendly chat. After all, it is just a game folks. Right, Curtis? silver & black, cksurfdude, StrokerAce and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JAGolfore Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I'm with Curtis. It almost seems like they were not playing against each other. I do not like loosing and even my good friends know I shut my mouth when it's crunch time. Sent from my iPhone using MyGolfSpy PlaidJacket and StrokerAce 2 Quote Driver: Callaway Rogue 9* FW: Sub 70 Pro 4 wood Hybrid: Sub 70 949 Hybrid 19* Irons: Sub 70 659 CB 4 - 6 Black 639 MB 7 - PW Wedges: Sub 70 JB - 50* 54* & 60* Putter: Odyssey White Hot #2 Ball: Titleist Pro-V1x Handicap index: +3.9 Instagram: joshandersongolf Twitter: @jacustomgolf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWahoo Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Darn, Curtis, that's not the way a true "Virginia Gentleman" acts. You should know better. StrokerAce and HardcoreLooper 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revkev Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 This cracks me up. Would anyone be shocked to learn that the generation before thought Curtis' generation of players was too soft and chummy too? It is what it is. I've played enough competitive sports to know that there are always different personalities in the mix. You have to be yourself under pressure. Having written that there is very little golf that we are involved in that would require and stone face and it's always easy to say nice shot without being chatty. Sent from my iPhone using MyGolfSpy PlaidJacket, excourse, MGoBlue100 and 6 others 9 Quote Taylor Made Stealth 2 10.5 Diamana S plus 60 Aldila R flex - 42.25 inches SMT 4 wood bassara R flex, four wood head, 3 wood shaft Ping G410 7, 9 wood Alta 65 R flex Srixon ZX5 MK II 5-GW - UST recoil Dart 65 R flex India 52,56 (60 pending) UST recoil 75's R flex Evon roll ER 5 32 inches It's our offseason so auditioning candidates - looking for that right mix of low spin long, more spin around the greens - TBD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hckymeyer Posted January 22, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted January 22, 2018 I think Rev nailed it. You have to be yourself under pressure. If that's the stone faced killer and you block everything out, go for it. If that's relaxing between shots and talking with your opponent, go for it. Basically, within the rules of the game do whatever it takes to put yourself in the best position to win. tony@CIC, Flipper554, tommc23 and 7 others 10 Quote Driver: SLDR w/ Fujikura Ventus Black 3w: '16 M2 hl w/ Diamana D+ 82 5w: Launcher HB w/ HZRDUS Yellow Hybrid: 22 deg. Launcher HB w/ HZRDUS Black Irons: 5i - gap Launcher CBX w/ Nippon Modus 3 125 Wedges: 54 CBX & 58 Zipcore w/ Nippon Modus 3 125 Putter: Red 7s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrokerAce Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 I think Rev nailed it. You have to be yourself under pressure. If that's the stone faced killer and you block everything out, go for it. If that's relaxing between shots and talking with your opponent, go for it. Basically, within the rules of the game do whatever it takes to put yourself in the best position to win. What about trash talking? That happens in other sports (basketball, football, baseball, hockey...); is that below the belt in golf? "You better put it on the green cause I'm about to drop a birdie" tony@CIC, MGoBlue100 and silver & black 3 Quote Driver- Cobra Aerojet LS Woods- Cobra LTD 3w 15*, 5W 19*, F9 24* Irons- XXIO X (6-A) Wedges- Callaway Jaws Raw (54/58) Putter- Bettinardi BB56 Ball- Maxfli Tour X/Wilson Triad Buggy- Clicgear 4.0 Bag- Callaway Org 14/Fairway C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flipper554 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 What about trash talking? That happens in other sports (basketball, football, baseball, hockey...); is that below the belt in golf? "You better put it on the green cause I'm about to drop a birdie" Trash talk in golf? I think it depends on the situation, when playing our normal games with friends there are always comments flying around. Club championship not so much. I think it's an etiquette thing. ole gray and MGoBlue100 2 Quote Driver: Cobra F8 Tour length 3W: Cobra King F7 3/4 Wood 5W: Cobra King F7 5/6 Wood Hybrid 3/4: Cobra F7 20.5* Irons: 5 to PW Taylormade P790 A Wedge: 48* Vokey SM6 F grind S Wedge: 54* Vokey SM6 M grind L Wedge: 58* Vokey SM6 M grind Putter: Rife Two Bar Hybrid 35" P2 Aware Tour grip Ball: Taylormade TP 5X Bag: Hot Z Canadian flag 🇨🇦 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hckymeyer Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 What about trash talking? That happens in other sports (basketball, football, baseball, hockey...); is that below the belt in golf? "You better put it on the green cause I'm about to drop a birdie" Trash talk in golf? I think it depends on the situation, when playing our normal games with friends there are always comments flying around. Club championship not so much. I think it's an etiquette thing. Definitely trash talk with your friends but personally I'd vote keep it out of tourneys. The funny thing about trash talk though is you have to back up or you look like a fool. Now if two guys are paired together and have that relationship then go ahead and talk a little trash. But I'd rather let my playing speak for itself, I just wish it spoke a little louder. StrokerAce, Flipper554, cksurfdude and 3 others 6 Quote Driver: SLDR w/ Fujikura Ventus Black 3w: '16 M2 hl w/ Diamana D+ 82 5w: Launcher HB w/ HZRDUS Yellow Hybrid: 22 deg. Launcher HB w/ HZRDUS Black Irons: 5i - gap Launcher CBX w/ Nippon Modus 3 125 Wedges: 54 CBX & 58 Zipcore w/ Nippon Modus 3 125 Putter: Red 7s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrokerAce Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 I find it interesting how this seems acceptable during the Ryder cup but when it's mano-y-mano it can be considered bad etiquette. Maybe that's why I like the Ryder cup so much....will never forget that Patrick Reed/Rory match. Would love to see Reed use that hush sign during a tournament. Maybe then golf wouldn't be voted most boring.... Sent from a bunker filled with mana Rickp, silver & black and kardboard.kid 3 Quote Driver- Cobra Aerojet LS Woods- Cobra LTD 3w 15*, 5W 19*, F9 24* Irons- XXIO X (6-A) Wedges- Callaway Jaws Raw (54/58) Putter- Bettinardi BB56 Ball- Maxfli Tour X/Wilson Triad Buggy- Clicgear 4.0 Bag- Callaway Org 14/Fairway C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shankster Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I'm with Meyer. Let my game speak, a few birds in a row can either elevate your buddies or demoralize them. I prefer the straight faced cut throat golf. The bro stuff is getting old. Just like this, courtesy of @easygolftips on IG. kardboard.kid, silver & black and Charli 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STUDque Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I also think it's a generational thing but I've got a different take. It's not quite as simple as saying "old people are mean; young people are nice." I'd argue we've got a little bit of nature vs nurture going on. Previous generations didn't focus on just one sport; they played many different sports (I'm from the tail end of this generation). It was seen as a badge of honor if you could start for your school's teams all 3 seasons. I think the killer instinct you saw in Strange's era bled into golf from players who learned to hold contempt for your opponent through football, basketball, baseball, etc. This new generation grew up playing one sport and specialized their skills year round. Golf by nature is not a competitive sport against your opponent but rather the course and yourself. Add in programs like the first tee and other learning centers and you're teaching the youth better manners to match golf etiquette without the brutal competitiveness learned elsewhere. Just like all trends, there's exceptions but I'd say this describes the general population of both eras. Is it good or bad for the sport? The answer is 'yes.' Being different doesn't always mean better or worse. It's just that the new generation has its own identity where they'd rather win with a birdie than make their opponent miss a putt for par. Sent from carrier pigeon using MyGolfSpy kardboard.kid, MGoBlue100, cksurfdude and 2 others 5 Quote In my Pisa, riding on a 3.5+ G410+ EXS 5W King F7 Hy i500 5-GW Equalizer 56/60 Heppler Ketsch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaveP043 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I think Curtis is a little off base, and agree with the others that you should let your normal personality determine how you act. However, I bet Curtis would not be one to leave his ball 2 feet past the hole to provide a backstop while another player is chipping. That's taking friendliness a bit too far. HardcoreLooper, silver & black and kardboard.kid 3 Quote Irons Titleist T200, AMT Red stiff Rogue SubZero, GD YS-Six X T22 54 and 58 wedges 7-wood 5-wood B60 G5i putter Right handed Reston, Virginia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charli Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 I'm very competitive But that doesn't change because I'm in a match with my friends (having fun laughing) or in a gap match and it's all business. Both scenarios I want to beat them into the ground. But depending on the scenario is how I act. This guy is mistaking their friendly ways with a sign of weakness...Because they are friends they always want to win I know I do Flipper554, kardboard.kid, ole gray and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PMookie Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 If I'm in a tournament, I don't like to talk. I'm not trying to be a jerk, I just like to stay focused and concentrate. Hard to do when I play with guys I know, but I play my best that way. It was the same in college. If I got to talking trash on the court, I was done! Sent from my iPhone using MyGolfSpy Rickp and kardboard.kid 2 Quote Driver: Ping G430 Max 9*, Ping Tour 70X Fairway: Ping G425 15*, Ping Tour 70X Hybrid: Ping G425 22*, Ping Tour 80X Irons: Ping i230 4-GW, TT DG X100 Wedges: SMS 50D/54V/58DModus 130 stiff, +1” Putter: EAS 1.0 Ball: Titleist 2023 AVX Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peanut05 Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 With me, it all depends on who I am playing. If I end up in a tournament playoff with a good friend of mine, there will definitely be some talk and good natured ribbing going on while we are playing. However, if it's somebody I don't know or don't know that well, chances are I won't say a word to them. Probably won't even look their direction. I'll be focused on what I need to do to win and that's it. kardboard.kid and Rickp 2 Quote In my bag: Callaway Epic Subzero with Aldila Rogue Max 75 Stiff shaft Callaway Rogue Subzero with Project X Evenflow 6.0 75g stiff shaft Callaway Rogue 3 Hybrid with Aldila Synergy 60 HYB stiff shaft Callaway Apex irons (4-PW) with True Temper XP 95 stiff shafts Callaway MD3 wedges (50/54/58) SeeMore Original FGP Bridgestone Tour B RX Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Filtr Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 Time to move forward why do think a lot of the young people don't play golf because us old grey hairs take the fun out of the sport. I like the talent they guys have I wish I had 10 % of their talent. Move on with the snob days. Sent from my iPhone using MyGolfSpy Rickp and cksurfdude 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bags Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 people are strange when your stranger Sent from my iPhone using MyGolfSpy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kardboard.kid Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 There are many valid arguments presented in this thread. What I believe everyone has missed is there level of play that was shown. Do I watch golf to see who talks to who? Whether they laugh or stare each other down? Civility does not equate to anything more than civility. Competition should bring out the best golf. Whatever that looks like. Flipper554, cksurfdude and Rickp 3 Quote F7+ w/Fujikura Pro XLR8 Graphite Shaft 3-I MPF H-Series3B2M graphite Shaft w/Winn Dri-Tac grip mid STi Irons 5-SW KURO KAGE 70IR Flex-R Lamkin Grips King F6 Hybrid Matrix Red Tie HQ4 Graphite Shaft Forged FGT 60* wedge KURO KAGE 70R SS cross Comfort grip O-Putter 1W Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reesedw Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 I am a firm believer that to each there own. When I shot competitively I was chatty and Jovial until the match started then it was me against the world until the results were in. Then back to bring jovial.. Sent from my SM-G900V using Tapatalk revkev 1 Quote Dave- Follow me on twitter @GolfCrazyWA and on Instagram @GolfcrazyWA WITB: Cobra Ultralite Cart Bag Titleist TSR3 Hzrdus Black 65g shaft Cobra F8+ 3wd Hzrdus Red 65g shaft Cobra 3 hybrid Rogue Pro 75g Shaft Cobra 4 hybrid Rogue Pro 75g Shaft Cobra F8 irons 5-GW KBS tour 90 stiff shafts Cobra King Black Wedge 54* Cleveland RTX Zipcore Wedge 58* Snake Eyes Viper Putter. Ball: Taylormade TP-5X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardcoreLooper Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 Umm... how about the Duel in the sun? Nicklaus and Watson managed to be cordial to one another while they battled to the death. We just had the coaches' Ryder Cup at our TFT chapter. I wanted to beat the living snot out of my opponent, and he just gave one of my daughters a lesson. We talked and joked most of the way around. If I'm too serious between shots, it's just too much of a drain and I don't play well. I need to save it for when I'm over the ball. But that's just me. revkev, StrokerAce and Flipper554 3 Quote What's in the bag: Driver - F8 - Aldila NV Blue 60 ( S ) 3 Wood (13.5*) - 980F 4 Wood (18*) - F8 - Aldila NV Blue 60 ( S ) 3 Hybrid (19*) - RBZ 4i - PW - D7 Forged - Recoil 760 ( S ) 52* - CBX 58* - CBX Full Face 2 Putter - Craz-e Bag - 2.5 (Blue) Ball - AVX Instagram - @hardcorelooper Twitter - @meovino Facebook - mike.eovino Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
excourse Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 I vote for quiet confidence. Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk revkev 1 Quote Wishon clubs, Odyssey CS stroke lab putter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrokerAce Posted January 24, 2018 Author Share Posted January 24, 2018 I suppose a key element in this is whether or not it is stroke play vs. match play. I mean if someone is up 4-5 strokes with 3 holes to go and they're having a chat with their playing partner I don't see how StrangeCurtis can have a problem with that. Stroke play seems as though you're playing "the course" vs. one or more opponents....at least until it gets to a playoff. Match play is when the fun starts - love match play, whether it's 1 on 1 or team vs team.... I suppose a playoff is essentially match play...nevertheless I think it is all about getting into an opponent's head, making them uncomfortable and having them do something they don't normally do. Golf is as much a mental sport as it is physical and whether it's quiet confidence/silent but deadly or letting them know, the first one to get them off-kilter mentally is going to have a better chance. Quote Driver- Cobra Aerojet LS Woods- Cobra LTD 3w 15*, 5W 19*, F9 24* Irons- XXIO X (6-A) Wedges- Callaway Jaws Raw (54/58) Putter- Bettinardi BB56 Ball- Maxfli Tour X/Wilson Triad Buggy- Clicgear 4.0 Bag- Callaway Org 14/Fairway C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrokerAce Posted January 24, 2018 Author Share Posted January 24, 2018 The 6 best words ever spoken about sports. Ever. Quote Driver- Cobra Aerojet LS Woods- Cobra LTD 3w 15*, 5W 19*, F9 24* Irons- XXIO X (6-A) Wedges- Callaway Jaws Raw (54/58) Putter- Bettinardi BB56 Ball- Maxfli Tour X/Wilson Triad Buggy- Clicgear 4.0 Bag- Callaway Org 14/Fairway C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revkev Posted January 27, 2018 Share Posted January 27, 2018 Umm... how about the Duel in the sun? Nicklaus and Watson managed to be cordial to one another while they battled to the death. We just had the coaches' Ryder Cup at our TFT chapter. I wanted to beat the living snot out of my opponent, and he just gave one of my daughters a lesson. We talked and joked most of the way around. If I'm too serious between shots, it's just too much of a drain and I don't play well. I need to save it for when I'm over the ball. But that's just me. Exactly - we are all different. Lee Trevino was chatty when he played. That doesn't mean he was less competitive than the ever silent Ben Hogan. It was just how their individual personalities worked best on the course. Sent from my iPhone using MyGolfSpy HardcoreLooper, Flipper554 and Rickp 3 Quote Taylor Made Stealth 2 10.5 Diamana S plus 60 Aldila R flex - 42.25 inches SMT 4 wood bassara R flex, four wood head, 3 wood shaft Ping G410 7, 9 wood Alta 65 R flex Srixon ZX5 MK II 5-GW - UST recoil Dart 65 R flex India 52,56 (60 pending) UST recoil 75's R flex Evon roll ER 5 32 inches It's our offseason so auditioning candidates - looking for that right mix of low spin long, more spin around the greens - TBD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cconley11 Posted April 17, 2020 Share Posted April 17, 2020 My uncle, who I blame for getting me started in golf, once told me that I wasn’t good enough to get mad or be a poor sport. Maybe these guys needed better direction and wisdom from their elders. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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