StrawberryShortCake Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters? aerospace_ray and Brian A 2 Quote Driver: Rogue Sub Zero 9* stiff Wood: Tight Lies TI 3 wood stiff Hybrid: XR 3 19 deg stiff Irons: JPX 900 Tour std loft/lie Wedges: 52,56,60 Putter: #7 Red Ball: Q-Star 12.9 Handicap Comox Valley, B.C. Link to comment
Wondergiulio Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 Well, I try remember that in golf you play only against the course.... even if I have to admit that there is a first tee that always intimidate me... Bethpage Black first hole... usually everyone is watching from behind and it gives a bit of goosebumps hahaha StrawberryShortCake, Chizzle and silver & black 3 Quote G400 9.0 Alta CB 55g stiff G400 3W Alta CB 65g stiff Fairway Pro 5W Ust Mamiya V2 black stiff 839X 4h Kbs TGI80 639cb 5-PW Kbs TGI80 Forged Wedge 50.7 Kbs TGI80 MD4 56.8, 60.12 PXG Bat Attack MTB-X Link to comment
Chizzle Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 Only time I can remember getting hitters on the tee box was off #1 at pebble for the same reason that @Wondergiulio said. I think having a routine helps. I try to do the same thing for every shot: practice swing, stand behind ball to get my target and line, set my club face to target line with feet together, split feet, take a peek up at target, say my 1 swing thought, breath, and swing. I think finding your own routine will help get you into your world and hopefully it will register in your brain that you are about to hit a golf shot. Golf Dawg 1 Quote Link to comment
Headhammer Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 Usually happens to me if I'm playing with people I don't know and/or I've had a long layoff with no practice. ParFore74x and Brian A 2 Quote Driver: Speed Zone 9* HZRDUS Smoke Yellow Shaft 3 Wood: King Speedzone 13.5* HZRDUS Smoke Black Shaft 2 & 3 Hybrids: Speedzone Recoil 480 ESX Shaft Irons: Speedzone 5-GW Recoil 460 ESX Shafts Wedges: PM Grind 54* & 58* Putter: Dual Force Rossi II Ball: Whatever I find in the woods HCP:18 Link to comment
Gurra Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 When I started playing golf last year I always got nervous when playing with anyone. Worse with people I have never played with but even more so with people that I know but never played with before. Only time I did not get nervous was when I played solo. However this year I got first of all fitted for a new driver so I have quite a bit more confidence from the tee in general but I also realize that playing with ppl is part of the game and I have gotten used to it. Just do you and it will work out. Chizzle, StrawberryShortCake and ParFore74x 3 Quote Link to comment
Mtbryant01 Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 No matter how much I warm up on the range, I still get first tee jitters, especially if it’s on a course I have never played before. To me, it’s more of a rush of excitement to get the round started with the hope of a good round to follow. Quote Cobra Connect 5 participant G410 Plus, w/ X stiff 75 g Project X Evenflow Black shaft driver / Radspeed w/ Smoke RDX Blue 70S shaft Big Tour 3 wood/ 5 wood w/ Fujikura X F3 60S shaft 4 Hybrid w/ Project X Catalyst 80S shaft Copper MIM Tour Irons w/ KBS $ Taper Balck 120S shaft Snakebite 50, 54, and 58 wedges w/ KBS Hi-Rev 2.0 125S shaft Newport 2.5 putter MTB X golf balls RH, Alabama Link to comment
xOldBenKenobiX Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 9 hours ago, StrawberryShortCake said: When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters? It happens to most of us. I specially have a really bad case of the jitters when I am teeing off in front of people I don't know. I try to concentrate and forget about everything around me, just take my time and try to take a nice controlled swing. Golf Dawg and Mtbryant01 2 Quote My Reviews: 2023 Official review - Rapsodo MLM2Pro! 2022 Official Review - Edel SMS Wedges 2021 Official Review - Tommy Armour Impact 3 Putter 2020 Official Member Review - BagBoy Chiller Cart Bag Cobra SpeedZone Xtreme - Unofficial Review by xOldBenKenobiX Honma TR21 4 Wood - Unofficial Review by xOldBenKenobiX Driver - Cobra SpeedZone Xtreme 10.5, UST helium 5 Wood - . TR21 4 Wood, Vizard 20-60 and TW GS 5 Wood Vixard FD 55 301 Combo 301CB and 301MB . SMS 48*, 56*, 60* Putter: Lucky golf putter. Ball: : ProV1, :: Smart Sensors. Shoes: a couple :: A couple of A couple of Adidas , Yeah I have a shoe addiction.:: Started at 79mph, finished 1st stage at 91mph Link to comment
stj51 Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 10 hours ago, StrawberryShortCake said: When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters? My goal is try to tee off 3rd or 4th so I can take a few swings while waiting and collect my thoughts toward my approach, sometimes I will tell myself "to shorten up" which is self talk for don't swing so hard, and if I absolutely shank one I try to make a joke so hopefully it lightens the mood Quote - Driver - TSi2 10 deg, -1 Length, Project X TSi Hzrdus Smoke Black RDX 60 (6.0) - Fairway Wood - TSi2 3 Wood 15 deg, -½ Length, Project X TSi Hzrdus Smoke Black RDX 70 (6.0) - Hybrid - TS2 Hybrid 19 deg Project X Hzrdus Smoke Black 80 HYB (6.0) - Hybrid - TS2 Hybrid 23 deg Project X Hzrdus Smoke Black 80 HYB (6.0) - Irons T200 (6 - W 48) True Temper AMT Black (S300) - Wedge - SM7 52.12 F Grind, True Temper Vokey Wedge (Wedge Flex) - Wedge - SM8 56.12 D Grind, True Temper Vokey Wedge (Wedge Flex) - Wedge - SM8 60.12 D Grind, True Temper Vokey Wedge (Wedge Flex) - 2020 Newport Select, Pistolini Grip, 35" - ProV1 Link to comment
TCUfrog Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 14 minutes ago, stj51 said: My goal is try to tee off 3rd or 4th so I can take a few swings while waiting and collect my thoughts toward my approach, sometimes I will tell myself "to shorten up" which is self talk for don't swing so hard, and if I absolutely shank one I try to make a joke so hopefully it lightens the mood I always try to go first so if I hit one good, I can proudly say "no breakfast balls today" and have all my competitors get the jitters, but if I shank it and I'm first, I can sheepishly say "We are doing breakfast balls today, right?" stj51, Mtbryant01 and gavinski91 1 2 Quote RadSpeed 10.5, Motore X F1 60 X-Stiff RadSpeed 14, Motore X F1 60 Stiff M6, 4H 22.0 JPX 921 Hot Metal Pro, 4-PW, Nippon Modus 105 MG3 52, 56, 60, SB - Black White Hot OG #7 Vice Golf Pro Plus Smart Sensors Link to comment
DaveP043 Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 I've been playing for a long time, so I rarely feel those jitters, but I do remember them. The last time I was pretty nervous was when I played at the Old Course the first time. The first tee is right in the middle of town, so its not just golfers watching you while they wait for their turn, its anyone who cares to walk past. You might have 100 people or more on a random weekday morning. Fortunately, we had been there for a couple of days, and I had spent a little time watching other folks teeing off. And I had seen some great drives, but I had seen a significant number of awful drives too. Players with very solid-looking swings who cold-topped the ball, or sliced it OB. And nobody really cared about those bad shots except the player himself. So my advice, just remind yourself that no matter what, your tee shot will not be the worst that day. Try to relax, try to just take a normal swing and hit a normal shot. I think @Chizzle had some good advice about your routine, using a consistent routine can go a long way toward making that first shot "normal". Micah T, StrawberryShortCake, silver & black and 3 others 6 Quote Irons Titleist T200, AMT Red stiff Rogue SubZero, GD YS-Six X T22 54 and 58 wedges 7-wood 5-wood B60 G5i putter Right handed Reston, Virginia Link to comment
Nolan220 Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 I get them sometimes on the first tee if I am paired up with someone I don't know or if its a course I never played at but after that i am good. I used to be terrible with the driver with slicing or chunks but pretty confident with the drive now. Quote Speedzone Driver Tensei AV Blue or G400 SFT 10. KBS TD 50 Category 3 shaft King Speedzone Black Yellow Fairway 3 wood Tensei AV Blue 65 F9 SpeedBack Black Grey Fairway 5 Wood ATMOS Tour Spec Blue 7 shaft T300 4i-GW - Tensei AV Blue AM2 Regular Flex or JPX 900 Hot Metal 5 - GW Project X Lz 4.5 Regular Flex Graphite Glide 2.0 SS Wedges 54 & 58 TP Red White Ardmore Putter - BGT Stability Tour Black shaft Precision Pro NX7 range finder Ultralight Cart Bag Link to comment
stj51 Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 11 minutes ago, TCUFrog said: I always try to go first so if I hit one good, I can proudly say "no breakfast balls today" and have all my competitors get the jitters, but if I shank it and I'm first, I can sheepishly say "We are doing breakfast balls today, right?" Love a good breakfast ball! Great strategy TCUfrog 1 Quote - Driver - TSi2 10 deg, -1 Length, Project X TSi Hzrdus Smoke Black RDX 60 (6.0) - Fairway Wood - TSi2 3 Wood 15 deg, -½ Length, Project X TSi Hzrdus Smoke Black RDX 70 (6.0) - Hybrid - TS2 Hybrid 19 deg Project X Hzrdus Smoke Black 80 HYB (6.0) - Hybrid - TS2 Hybrid 23 deg Project X Hzrdus Smoke Black 80 HYB (6.0) - Irons T200 (6 - W 48) True Temper AMT Black (S300) - Wedge - SM7 52.12 F Grind, True Temper Vokey Wedge (Wedge Flex) - Wedge - SM8 56.12 D Grind, True Temper Vokey Wedge (Wedge Flex) - Wedge - SM8 60.12 D Grind, True Temper Vokey Wedge (Wedge Flex) - 2020 Newport Select, Pistolini Grip, 35" - ProV1 Link to comment
silver & black Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 I used to get them. I don't care that much about impressing anyone on the tee box...lol. I know I'm not a "good" player... and usually the new people/person I'm playing with isn't either. Since my home course closed it's range and no one can warm up, I've conceded that the first ball is a 50/50 deal...lol. It is what it is... just have fun and don't worry about the first tee. Chances are good that the people/person you are playing with are feeling the same thing. DaveP043 1 Quote Link to comment
bacchus Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 I don't necessarily get first tee jitters, I haven't had any experiences teeing off in front of a lot of people, but I get narrow hole jitters. I've seen pros say they still get nervous for the first tee though, I think it comes down to confidence in your swing though. I know there's a lot of mental coaching out there that talks about trying to visualize standing on the tee box on your favorite (most confident) hole whenever you get get nervous on the tee. Try not to think about the hole you're on and swing free. Apparently this is used often on the PGA tour because a lot of those guys have holes that "don't fit their eye", so they try to fix that by trying to visualize a hole they do like, pick out a target and go. Quote Driver : F7 - Project X Hzrdus Yellow 6.5 75g 3w: F7 Fairway - Project X Hzrdus Yellow 6.5 75g Hybrid: F6 Hybrid - KBS Tour Hybrid Prototype 95g X-Stiff Irons: JPX 900 Forged (4,5) JPX 900 Tour (6-P) KBS C-Taper 130 (Softstepped) Wedes: SM7 52* F Grind, 56* M Gind (KBS C-Taper 125), 60* S Grind Putter: Futura X7M Link to comment
IceHawk Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 On 6/2/2020 at 9:32 PM, StrawberryShortCake said: When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters? It's happened so many times now, but I still feel like I have to control the slight increase in adrenaline that I feel and try not to absolutely destroy the ball. You can use some sport psychology tools like mental imagery, or positive self-talk during your routine to help calm yourself down too. Nothing frustrates me more when a two-some suddenly gets paired up with you that just found a last minute deal online on golfnow. It's especially irritating when one of them starts smashing their club against the retention wall of a water hazard by the third hole. StrawberryShortCake 1 Quote Link to comment
Guests Guest Delete Posted June 5, 2020 Guests Share Posted June 5, 2020 On 6/2/2020 at 7:32 PM, StrawberryShortCake said: When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters? To avoid those jitters, I play forward a tee box less than I would normally play, use my go-to club and/or a fairway finder, and take slow practice swings to get loose and remind myself not to rush. Jitters seem to come most from lack of confidence. Practicing/warming up will provide some confidence or make you realize it is going to be one of those days where playing forward is a good idea. I hit the ball about 220 with my 5 Wood and 160 with my 7 iron. I should consistent play from blue tees. But, I have no shame playing from white to make my round more fun and take some of the pressure off. At my most played course it equates to about 1 less club on each hole. My rule of thumb is simple, "If I am not getting 5 birdies a round then I am playing too far back!" (Note: I have never had 5 birdies in a round) My second rule of thumb is, "Play the tee where the shortest par 3 is not longer than a 9i or shorter than a gap wedge." My last rule of thumb, "Play the tee where a perfect tee shot on a par 5 makes the green reachable in 2 and, on par 4s the second shot shouldn't be more than a 7 iron." Tee it forward and have fun. Quote Link to comment
ED13 Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 Being a high handicap player I warn people I am not very good and to expect to see some terrible shots. Pressure off and I play my own game. silver & black and StrawberryShortCake 2 Quote Driver - Ping G410 Woods - Callaway Rogue 5 wood Hybrid - Titleist TS2 21 degree Irons - Taylormade P790 5-PW Wedges - Taylormade MG3 50, 54, 58, SM9 60 Putter - Mizuno Black Carbon BC3 Link to comment
Tom the Golf Nut Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 We have all been there and some still are! Many moons ago I went through the same thing. My first stop at the course was the bathroom. My stomach would be in knots before the first tee shot. The more you play the quicker this phase goes away, because the more you play the more confidence you have with your now ingrained repeatable swing. I got to the point where I look forward to the first tee. It's the start of a great day on the golf course. StrawberryShortCake 1 Quote Driver, TSi 1 S Flex 3 wood, Aerojet Max UST Helium Nanocore R Flex 5 wood, Aerojet Max UST Helium Nanocore R Flex 7 Wood, Aerojet Max UST Helium Nanocore R Flex 5 Hybrid King Tec MMT R Flex Irons, Tour UST Recoil 95 R Flex (6 - Gap) Wedges, Snakebite KBS Hi- Rev2.0 54* & 60* Agera 35" Ultralight 14-way Cart Bag Link to comment
Wedgie Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 I don't really get the jitters but my go to is always the same when playing with strangers. I always tell them it is my first time out this year. It really covers all your bases. If you play great they think you are better than you are. If you play poorly they think, well, it's his first time out. Micah T and StrawberryShortCake 2 Quote Wedgie Driver - XXIO X Driver 9.5 - Launcher Turbo 2 hybrid - F9 One Length 3-L - ER 1.2 Top Flite Gamer Play Right Link to comment
russtopherb Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 I usually just say "I apologize in advance for what you're about to witness, you might want to look away" with a laugh and it usually calms me down. Of course, last year I played Pine Hills with my father and we were paired up with two regulars who let us know that they played daily. So naturally I topped my first two shots on the hole. StrawberryShortCake, Wedgie and sirchunksalot 2 1 Quote In my carry bag: ST-X 10.5* Kai'li Blue R Flex ST-Z 15* Kai/li Blue R Flex ST-Z 4h Linq Blue R Flex Launcher 5h Launcher CBX 6i-PW CBX 54* & 58* Huntington Beach #10 e12 Contact CURRENTLY TESTING - Mizuno Long Game Link to comment
silver & black Posted June 5, 2020 Share Posted June 5, 2020 1 hour ago, Tom the Golf Nut said: because the more you play the more confidence you have with your now ingrained repeatable swing. It seems like such a long time ago. Quote Link to comment
Guests Guest Delete Posted June 5, 2020 Guests Share Posted June 5, 2020 3 hours ago, ED13 said: Being a high handicap player I warn people I am not very good and to expect to see some terrible shots. Pressure off and I play my own game. I sometimes do this too. I say I am a horrible golfer when introducing myself to new people. Then I usually stripe it past them. Quote Link to comment
Brian A Posted June 8, 2020 Share Posted June 8, 2020 Used to let this get to me, had a buddy tell me he heard Tiger (true or not) uses 10 steps to move on to the next shot, so I will take some practice swings off to the side and then take 10 steps counting to ten and its just "the next shot" for me. tony@CIC and StrawberryShortCake 2 Quote Driver: G425 9* Hzrdus Smoke Green Small batch 6.5 70g Fairway Wood: Cobra Radspeed Big 3 Hzrdus Smoke Black 6.5 Hybrid: Cobra Aerojet 5 Wood Hzrdus Smoke Black 6.5 Irons: T200 (4-AW) AMT Black Stiff Shafts Wedges: Tour Rack 56* 60* Putter: Scotty Cameron Golo 5 Right Handed Pittsburgh, PA Link to comment
StrawberryShortCake Posted June 9, 2020 Author Share Posted June 9, 2020 7 hours ago, Apes44 said: Used to let this get to me, had a buddy tell me he heard Tiger (true or not) uses 10 steps to move on to the next shot, so I will take some practice swings off to the side and then take 10 steps counting to ten and its just "the next shot" for me. I really like that advice thanks! Quote Driver: Rogue Sub Zero 9* stiff Wood: Tight Lies TI 3 wood stiff Hybrid: XR 3 19 deg stiff Irons: JPX 900 Tour std loft/lie Wedges: 52,56,60 Putter: #7 Red Ball: Q-Star 12.9 Handicap Comox Valley, B.C. Link to comment
Brian A Posted June 9, 2020 Share Posted June 9, 2020 1 hour ago, StrawberryShortCake said: I really like that advice thanks! Welcome! It helps after bad shots too! Quote Driver: G425 9* Hzrdus Smoke Green Small batch 6.5 70g Fairway Wood: Cobra Radspeed Big 3 Hzrdus Smoke Black 6.5 Hybrid: Cobra Aerojet 5 Wood Hzrdus Smoke Black 6.5 Irons: T200 (4-AW) AMT Black Stiff Shafts Wedges: Tour Rack 56* 60* Putter: Scotty Cameron Golo 5 Right Handed Pittsburgh, PA Link to comment
ZenGolfer Posted June 9, 2020 Share Posted June 9, 2020 I get over it by realizing that Im a better golfer than 90% of the randoms that Im paired with, so theres really no reason to be nervous. Even when theyre better than me, I dont usually pay attention to the scores that others shoot. Last Friday, I played with a guy and his friend who was a legit single digit cap. He birdied or parred every hole and I think he shot something like a 69 (only because he told his friend that he shot that score, I wasnt really paying attention). I just focus on my game. To be fair though, I used to get really nervous, so maybe its just something that you grow out of. sirchunksalot and StrawberryShortCake 2 Quote "I suppose its better to be a master of 7 than to be vaguely familiar with 14." - Chick Evans Whats in my Sun Mountain 2.5+ stand bag? Woods: Tommy Armour Atomic 10.5* Hybrid: Mizuno MP Fli-Hi 3H Irons: Mizuno T-Zoid True 5, 7 and 9-irons Wedge: Mizuno S18 54* and Top Flite chipper Putter: Mizuno Bettinardi A-02 Ball: Maxfli Tour X Link to comment
aerospace_ray Posted June 9, 2020 Share Posted June 9, 2020 On 6/2/2020 at 9:32 PM, StrawberryShortCake said: When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters? Great question. After many years (funny how things change the older we get) I have a little mental routine while walking to the tee box. (Keeps things in perspective) First I remind myself at the end of the day its just a game/have fun. (For my nerves) Second I love recalling the advice that a young Tom Watson got from Byron Nelson , to slow everything down. I walk slower to tee my ball up and I do a practice swing in a slower/more rhythmic tempo. (Reduce thoughts in my head before swing) Third and final while over the ball at address I do two little things , I pick a dimple on the ball to focus on and a piece of turf 1" past the ball that I want the driver head to swing over/through. (In my mind one helps me w/backswing and one guarantees I finish/swing through) Basically I turn everything over to the subconscious and I quit/don't think during the swing -- those two little things kinda program me to execute the swing. **IF some of you are legit psychologist and what I am doing is wrong-- please don't tell me because it works great when I follow my routine StrawberryShortCake and tony@CIC 2 Quote Link to comment
tchat07 Posted June 9, 2020 Share Posted June 9, 2020 When I play with new people or people I don't know well I usually get very nervous on the first couple of tee's. What do you guys do to avoid the jitters?Or when a group in front of you let's you play through!Sent from my SM-G950U using MyGolfSpy mobile app tony@CIC, ParFore74x, StrawberryShortCake and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
ballplayer002003 Posted June 9, 2020 Share Posted June 9, 2020 It's normal, not to worry. Every golfer on the planet has felt that, and if they say they haven't then you know they probably use the ol foot wedge as well! StrawberryShortCake 1 Quote Driver: Epic Flash Sub Zero Hzdrs Smoke x flex 70g 3 Wood: 917 w/ Diamana Whiteboard stiff 5 Wood : Epic Flash 18* Hzdrs Smoke stiff 4 Hybrid: TSi3 Hzdrs Smoke X flex Irons: 5-7 Apex forged 19 w/ Modus 120 X 9-A Apex Pro 19 w/ Modus 120 X Wedges: MD5 52&56 Jaws Dynamic Gold wedge flex Putter: Scotty Cameron Phantom 5.5 34" Link to comment
StrawberryShortCake Posted June 9, 2020 Author Share Posted June 9, 2020 5 hours ago, tchat07 said: Or when a group in front of you let's you play through! Sent from my SM-G950U using MyGolfSpy mobile app Forgot about that. Super nervous having strangers watch you play through. I usually just pound one and walk fast Quote Driver: Rogue Sub Zero 9* stiff Wood: Tight Lies TI 3 wood stiff Hybrid: XR 3 19 deg stiff Irons: JPX 900 Tour std loft/lie Wedges: 52,56,60 Putter: #7 Red Ball: Q-Star 12.9 Handicap Comox Valley, B.C. Link to comment
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