I could go either way with music but if I’m the one playing or controlling it, I’ll always ask the group if they’re okay with it. And I’ll have it at a level that you can’t here it 2-3 holes away.
I feel like there should be a general sense of common courtesy on the course. Or what about a single AirPod in for the guy who does like it. Can still listen but without being disconnected from conversation and being a possible distraction.