Yep, their growth is a proccess, just like the golf swing, only it's a hell of a lot more trying..lol..I have no doubt that she has you & your wife's head so all's good
If you're still not comfortable, do what I did. After seeing my niece's dress, I offered her a $200 gift certificate to let me pick the dress. Returned hers, picked mine & my piece of mine only cost me $200..Take care
After seeing what some of the other girls were wearing, I wound up preferring my daughter's choice. In my day that kind of "dress" would get you arrested!