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I'm the coordinator of a golf group that plays once a week.  We have 18 guys in the group.  Most, including me, are retired and 65+.  Week play a local course three weeks in a row, then take field trip to other courses in the area on the fourth week.  

At our home course, there are three tee boxes - blue (6565 yards), white (6026 yards), and red (5286 yards). We play the white tees.  You know what's coming...  Some of the guys can hit drives in the 230 - 245 range (I'm fortunate to still being that group).  Some struggle to get 200 yards on their drives - let's call them limited hitters.  Golf can be frustrating, but it's especially hard when you have no chance of getting a green in regulation.  It also leads higher scores and to slower play.

Last winter, I broached the subject of changing tee boxes to make the game more enjoyable.  That conversation didn't get very far.  One week, on a windy day when the fairways were damp and soft, I said, "Let's play the red tees today."  So we did.  At the end of the round, the torches and pitchforks came out.  Some thought it was OK to play the red tees when the weather was bad, especially hitting into the wind on a long par 3, but several made it clear that they were not happy, including some of the limited hitters.  Over time, I kept chipping away at the issue and was able to convince the group that, at least, we should shorten two holes - a 402 yard par 4 and a 541 yard par 5.  So, now we play the red tees on those two holes. No complaints! So, I suggested playing a modified red/white tee box combo, but they said that would too confusing to keep track of on the course. 

So, here's my analysis - male ego.  The red tees are the "ladies tees".  So, do I continue on the quest to make golf fun again, or close my eyes when I see a 192 yard drive on a 395 yard par 4.  I have a few ideas to try, but maybe some of you have better suggestions.  

 

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13 minutes ago, vandyland said:

This is a topic I feel passionately about. I was listening the to the "No Putts Given" podcast with Lou Stagner (data analyst at Arccos among other titles) and at the 31:00 mark he mentions a very simple formula for what courses to play:

Your 5 iron carry * 33 or 34 is the total course distance. 

I love this idea. Mostly because I bet many people (mainly men) are playing courses longer than that. For me, I carry a 5 iron about 180 yds. So that is 180 * 33 = 5940 yds. I carry a driver 260 yds. I have no problem playing sub 6,000 yds. It is more fun and, guess what, I still don't shoot below par very often. 

I would say if the majority of your golfing group is breaking 80 from the whites then they should stay there. If not, what are they afraid of? They might make more birdies? They might have more fun? The average second shot distance for a middle of the pack PGA tour player (distance-wise) is 140 yds on a par 4. That's probably a PW or soft 9 iron. If that is how we challenge a TOUR PRO then why should weekly golfers be subjecting themselves to stiffer test than that? Pride?

As a rule of thumb, consistent with what you posted, I figure a second shot on a par 4 should be 150 yards or less given a "normal" drive for the golfer in question.

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Would the course consider adding in senior tees?  

My club has 4 sets,

Blue 6763, White 6254, Gold 5331, and Red 5265

But even though you are shortening up by 900 yards going from white to gold, the elevation changes still challenge you as well as where they place the tee boxes. On many holes you are still playing position golf. Meaning from the white you hit driver and from the gold you hit a 3 or 5 wood because you have to be in position on a dog leg to go for the green. Your second shot can sometimes be the same distance to the green.  On a few other holes the distance is exactly the same from the tee box, but the angle is different as the tee boxes are on different sides of the fairway so to speak. 

I can understand the reluctancy from some members of your group hitting from the reds. A set of gold tees would make them feel better.  

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You said the group has 18 members.  One of those gents is going to reach the point where he says "to hell with it" and either moves up or simply quits.  THAT is when the change in policy, if it's to take place, will happen.

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I kept telling my guys that you shouldn't be playing driver, then three wood on every par 4. Is it really that much fun playing every hole as a par 5? One of my more outgoing (read louder) golf buddies moved up this year and has had a much easier time scoring. He tries to get the shorter guys to move up frequently. Just get a couple up there and have them team up on the rest? Lastly, you could just move up there until they join you. Then move back quietly or when they complain that you are hitting it too far to play the reds.

I deal with this all the time but we have quite a few forward tee'ers in my group. A couple of guys know they should move up but it is the principal of giving up I guess.

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11 minutes ago, Muckinfiddle said:

I kept telling my guys that you shouldn't be playing driver, then three wood on every par 4. Is it really that much fun playing every hole as a par 5? One of my more outgoing (read louder) golf buddies moved up this year and has had a much easier time scoring. He tries to get the shorter guys to move up frequently. Just get a couple up there and have them team up on the rest? Lastly, you could just move up there until they join you. Then move back quietly or when they complain that you are hitting it too far to play the reds.

I deal with this all the time but we have quite a few forward tee'ers in my group. A couple of guys know they should move up but it is the principal of giving up I guess.

I never looked at it as "giving up" given that I didn't start by playing the tips...  I looked at is as "making a needed adjustment" which made it a lot easier once I reached my point of frustration.

I don't ask for a senior discount but when the pro shop asks if I'm a senior I thank them for being so perceptive...

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16 minutes ago, Bobbers said:

I never looked at it as "giving up" given that I didn't start by playing the tips... 

I don't think of it that way but there is a stigma for some of the guys at my club who have ridiculed other players for playing the forward tees. I am not sure if it is pride or stubborness.

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Age old question - and every suggestion above is a good one.  You can also just lead by example and say "this is where I'm playing from, you play from where you want to..."  eventually they may join you.  Thats the whole point of the handicap system - you can compete playing from different tees.  And maybe they'll wise up.  

I think its hysterical that Landmand's tees are Red (slope of 74.7) White (72.8) Green (71.3) Yellow (69.4) and Black (66.9)

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2 minutes ago, Muckinfiddle said:

I don't think of it that way but there is a stigma for some of the guys at my club who have ridiculed other players for playing the forward tees. I am not sure if it is pride or stubborness.

That's unfortunate.  I've always found there can be more than enough "self loathing" in a given round of golf that I don't typically feel the need for any help in that area from other people...

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2 minutes ago, Bobbers said:

That's unfortunate.  I've always found there can be more than enough "self loathing" in a given round of golf that I don't typically feel the need for any help in that area from other people...

Old guard was tough.

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2 minutes ago, Muckinfiddle said:

Old guard was tough.

I've been paired up with "old guard", typically not for more than one round.

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3 hours ago, Muckinfiddle said:

I don't think of it that way but there is a stigma for some of the guys at my club who have ridiculed other players for playing the forward tees. I am not sure if it is pride or stubborness.

I started playing one of my local county courses around 25 years ago from about 6400 (gold tees) yards. 2 of the 4 par 5’s were reachable in 2 and the others were usually a short pitch or chip to get there in 3. A few years ago, we decided that moving up to the whites (about 6000) was a good idea. It was because the fairway bunkers were reachable again and a good drive was rewarded with a 130-150 yard approach to the green. Prior to the switch, my handicap increased from 14 to a robust 25. Not fun hovering around the century mark on an average day and praying for some bogey golf 90 rounds. This mostly put a lot of pressure on my putting to save a score, often unsuccessfully. Any wonder I had the yips putting? That’s receding now that the white tees are the choice. The handicap’s back to 20 and hopefully lower this winter. When I snowbird now, I’ll be playing 5800-6000 in Florida. 

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Have you considered talking to the head pro or GM of your home course and seeing if they would put together a combo tee setup for you?  If they make it official it can be rated and actually added to the scorecard.  If the combo setup is "official" you might get less push back from the other players.

Here is a link to my home course.  We have 4 tee's (green longest, silver shortest), then the pro put together a black/silver combo setup and added it to the scorecard.  It's been slope rated so you can enter scores towards an official handicap from that setup.

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Like it or not... guys need a place to move up to that is not the forward tees.  Every course should have a teeing ground between the Regular Men's tees and the Forward tees, or a mixed set of tees where players move up on the longer holes.  We do have a couple of groups of older guys at my club that play from our red (Forward) tees exclusively.

For 7 years I played from the Blue tees (6100y) at my new course; last year I played a few rounds at the White (senior) tees (5400y) at my course and I always shot the same scores at either tee (low 80's).  The difference was from the Blues I hit a lot of FW/Hybrids for 2nd and 3rd shots, and from the Whites I hit more iron shots.  This spring on my birthday when I turned 75, I told my wife that I was moving up to the Whites.  Overall, my index hasn't changed much, but I'm a much better iron player than I was, and I regularly score in the 70's instead of an occasional round in the 70's that happened only if I saved a lot of pars with my short game.  It's more fun playing iron shots!!  The people I play with have gotten used to me playing up at the Whites; I just tell them that I'm old.  My wife keeps complaining that the Ladies don't have a tee to move up to; her Ladies group has players from age 40-80.

Funny... maybe sad story...8 years ago I used to play at a 9-hole exec course; one par 5, six par 4's, two par 3's totaling just under 5200y from the back  Blue tees.  There were also White, Gold and Red tees.  Our gangsome always played from the Blues.  When I left, the oldest player had turned 70 and was the shortest hitter... moved up to the whites.  I saw him a year later, and he told me that everyone moved up to the Whites!!  Some of them could drive the par 4's!  When he turned 75, he moved up to the Gold tees, and shortly after that they all moved up to the Golds... even guys in their 40's!!  He was really frustrated because he moved up to compete better with the younger guys, and everyone followed him.  

 

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I feel your pain.

Our course has 5 boxes, Black, Blue, Combo, Silver and Green.  I play with guys who insist on playing blue tees when they should be playing silver at best and some should stick with green. This became a huge problem in money games as some guys egos got in the way.  We agreed to resolve this issue using the following option which we do annually and stick to for the year.  

 GHIN.  Our course is par 71.
  At the beginning of the year we all play round 1 from Green 5054 slope 120.  If you can’t play to within +4 of your course handicap from those tees, you don’t move back until you do. You must move back once you score within Course Handicap +4 or better.  Round 2 is from Silver 5554 slope 128 for those who were GHIN +4 or better from Green.  Round 3 is Combo 5981 slope 133 for those who were +4 or better from Silver.  Round 4 is Blue 6330 slope 137 using same criteria.  You don’t move back until you play to course Handicap +4 for the tees you started on that round.  We play Black 6718 slope 140 once a quarter to prove we still can.  
 

My index is 8.8 right now and My current course handicap ranges from 5 for Green and 13 for Black.  So I have to shoot 80 or better from Green to move back to Silver, etc. Our course isn’t long but is very tight, tricky small and very fast greens.  

It’s not all about how far you can hit it, but about how you can score from the box you are playing from.  This alternative takes a lot of the moaning and groaning out of the mix, especially when a guy can’t get off the forward tees for a few rounds.  One of my weekend partners has decided he is only playing silver as he has more fun from there, so we adjust everything based on the course handicap for the tee boxes he plays vs. the rest of us playing either Combo or Blue.

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Where I am the clubs senior league plays the red tees. Many of us don’t want to play from the ladies tees, so on our own we play gold tees. Fortunately my home course has white/gold hybrid tees and gold/red hybrid tees on the card and in GHIN, so everyone gets to play what they want. My Monday group (typically 16) includes some who play gold, and others who choose gold/red, and the foursomes are chosen to keep each together - seems to make everyone happy. Try that?

You could also develop your own hybrid tees, it’s easy to manually calculate GHIN ratings and slopes. There’s a local course we play that we’ve developed our own hybrids (we play reds on the 8 hardest holes, and whites all others) because whites are just too long and reds are just too short.

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We are in the process of renaming our tees from "colors" to 1,2,3,4,5,6....6 were played by Nationwide Tour years ago and nobody is playing them now.  1 is the forward most tees.  I play 4 mainly.  I like the number system rather than color.  There is no gender distinction (although many still refer to the tees as ladies (1,2) seniors (3,4) and mens (4,5).  And since we are still in the process, calling the tees by their color is still quite common.  

The guys playing the #5 tees tend to be a bit egotistic and really don't want to associate with anyone not playing gross games and from their tees.  Many of them won't play in our Thursday MGA game because they don't want to give strokes to the higher handicap players in a net game.  Silly, but .... The group that I am part of plays the #4 tees and we accrue points throughout the year to determine positions for the Ryder cup style tournaments, so on Thursday and Saturdays I always play #4.  On other days, I'm free to play whatever tees I desire and in our Wed and Fri groups, we have players playing both the #3 and #4 tees.  Some flip back and forth between the tees, but nobody really cares which tees you decide to play (adjust handicap as needed), although most of the guys I play with will likely give you the business if you decide to move up to the #3 tees.  

I'm at an age and my game has me at that point where I'm finding the #4 tees playable, but an issue because of the need to hit woods or hybrids into many of the par 4s.  For now, I'm sticking with #4, but toying with the idea of when I'll make the move forward.  It's a frequent discussion with many of my peers as to when we'll make the final call to do it.

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17 minutes ago, CarlH said:

We are in the process of renaming our tees from "colors" to 1,2,3,4,5,6....6 were played by Nationwide Tour years ago and nobody is playing them now.  1 is the forward most tees.  I play 4 mainly.  I like the number system rather than color.  There is no gender distinction (although many still refer to the tees as ladies (1,2) seniors (3,4) and mens (4,5).  And since we are still in the process, calling the tees by their color is still quite common.  

I like the numbering system rather than colors; wish our course used 1-4 tees.  I would think that the 1 tee should be the back tee... the first tee you come to.

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4 hours ago, cnosil said:

This is really the problem.  If we keep assigning gender to tees the male ego won’t let them play the correct tees.   For the LPGA ladies and other low handicap ladies they typically play a little farther back than the red tees so are they still playing the Ladies tees and we should play even further back?  Men are just idiots and have way to many biases when it comes to golf.  

Hilarious, the “problem” is assigning gender to red tees, as has been done for generations, and not the “male ego?” 

Where I play the red tees show WOMEN'S on the scorecard, with only Women's rating and slope shown. We can all play whatever tees we choose but that doesn’t change the fact that red tees are typically for women. If old men want to kid themselves and call the reds “forward tees” they’re welcome to their vanity. I’m 68 yo BTW.

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1 hour ago, Kenny B said:

I like the numbering system rather than colors; wish our course used 1-4 tees.  I would think that the 1 tee should be the back tee... the first tee you come to.

As long as they're in numerical order....LOL

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On 11/21/2022 at 11:36 AM, Bulldog said:

At our home course, there are three tee boxes - blue (6565 yards), white (6026 yards), and red (5286 yards). We play the white tees.  You know what's coming...  Some of the guys can hit drives in the 230 - 245 range (I'm fortunate to still being that group).  Some struggle to get 200 yards on their drives - let's call them limited hitters.  Golf can be frustrating, but it's especially hard when you have no chance of getting a green in regulation.  It also leads higher scores and to slower play.

 

... As always, every golfer is different. I have a regular group of 3 other guys and I have convinced the 80yr old in our group to play a combo of gold (sr) and red (ladies) and he is enjoying his rounds much more after moving up. One of the others in my group is 67 and he should be playing a combo of silver (mens) and gold (sr) but for some reason he refuses to move to the Sr tees until he reaches the age of 70. The 3rd member is 62 and longer than I am so we both play silver. As long as I can shoot under par from the silvers I won't be moving up. There are 4 holes that are long for me not only by yardage but 3 of them play uphill and only my best drives reach the flat area, and you can't see the green unless you reach it. I will hit anything from a 7 iron to a 3 hybrid depending on wind, so usually a 4 or 5 iron. the 67 yr old very rarely reaches these par 4's in 2 and would move up to the golds but is just stubborn and to be fair he rides in a cart due to a bad hip and plays fast so that is never a problem. 

... I do think a lot depends on your ability and for the most part, the higher your index the shorter you need to play within your playable range. It's one thing to be very accurate and consistent with a 4 hy but quite another if your 4 hy can go left-right, hook-slice and short of the target more often than not and you have to play it or a fairway wood on al the longer par 4's. Like everyone else, I think renaming tees is essential to appeasing the male ego and agree a numbered system would be ideal. That said, I will have no problems playing the ladies tees when they become the appropriate length for my game. 

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                  :taylormade-small:    DHy #4 ... Steelfiber 780Hy  
Irons:       :titleist-small:           '23 T200 5-Pw ... Steelfiber i95r
Wedges:  :titleist-small:           Vokey 50*/54*/58* ... Steelfiber i95r
Putter:     :cobra-small:    Sport-60 33" 
Ball:           Maxfli/:taylormade-small:  Maxfli Tour/TP5x

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2 hours ago, chisag said:

... I do think a lot depends on your ability and for the most part, the higher your index the shorter you need to play within your playable range. It's one thing to be very accurate and consistent with a 4 hy but quite another if your 4 hy can go left-right, hook-slice and short of the target more often than not and you have to play it or a fairway wood on al the longer par 4's. Like everyone else, I think renaming tees is essential to appeasing the male ego and agree a numbered system would be ideal. That said, I will have no problems playing the ladies tees when they become the appropriate length for my game. 

I have never liked a player's index as a measure of which tees to play.  It's the same here with our Men's Club and one reason why I don't play with them.  Not all high index players are short hitters, and not all short hitters are high index players.    Based on my index I should be playing the Blue tees (where the Men's Club plays and where I played for the past 7 years), but I cannot compete from there with others with the same or higher index because they outdrive me by 50-80 yards.  Into the wind I can't reach two par 5's, two par 4's and one par 3 in regulation.  It's tiresome playing FW all the time after a good drive.  Our Men's Club allows players to play from the White tees if your handicap + your age is 90+.  Assuming I can maintain the same index for 8 more years when I'm 83, I get to move to the senior tees (where I play now).  Of course, I can always just play worse and get there next year!!  😂

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26 minutes ago, Kenny B said:

I have never liked a player's index as a measure of which tees to play.  It's the same here with our Men's Club and one reason why I don't play with them.  Not all high index players are short hitters, and not all short hitters are high index players.    Based on my index I should be playing the Blue tees (where the Men's Club plays and where I played for the past 7 years), but I cannot compete from there with others with the same or higher index because they outdrive me by 50-80 yards.  Into the wind I can't reach two par 5's, two par 4's and one par 3 in regulation.  It's tiresome playing FW all the time after a good drive.  Our Men's Club allows players to play from the White tees if your handicap + your age is 90+.  Assuming I can maintain the same index for 8 more years when I'm 83, I get to move to the senior tees (where I play now).  Of course, I can always just play worse and get there next year!!  😂

 

... Index, swing speed and age should all just be starting points. Exactly why I added "within your playable range."  I play with higher index guys all the time that drive it farther than I do. I have always felt the criteria for tees should be computed from the green backwards. What club do you have to hit most of the time to reach the green? Since most holes are designed for a specific approach shot, what tees you play are paramount to playing it the way it is designed.

... For instance, my old home course had a slightly uphill par 4 that is 340yds from the mens tees. A 90* dogleg left and a very deep bunker in front of a green that slopes back to front. Hitting in the front bunker with deep rough around the sand is almost a sure bogie. Hitting long leaves a very difficult downhill chip. Add to that the green is very narrow so a 2 club green depth at most. It is designed for a short iron approach. I played with way too many that had anything from a hybrid to fairway wood approach making the green almost impossible to hold. Moving up a tee box at 315yds would at least give them a mid iron in. But the 7th hole is 431 and all uphill so only one bunker to the left of the big green that allows you to roll the ball on with a fairway wood. Again, moving up to the next tees at 407yds gives shorter off the tee players a chance to roll on in 2. 

... I am a huge believer in combo tees and for many that means making your own. Just chart the course and pay attention to the hole and what kind of approach shot is required and then play the appropriate tee. Obviously a mens club could include combo's but of course most don't. 

 

Driver:     :taylormade-small:    Qi10 10.5* ... Ventus Red Velocore 5R
Fairway:  :taylormade-small:    Qi10 5 wood ... Kai'li Blue 60R
Hybrids:  :ping-small:        430 Hybrid 22*... Diamana LTD 65r  
                  :taylormade-small:    DHy #4 ... Steelfiber 780Hy  
Irons:       :titleist-small:           '23 T200 5-Pw ... Steelfiber i95r
Wedges:  :titleist-small:           Vokey 50*/54*/58* ... Steelfiber i95r
Putter:     :cobra-small:    Sport-60 33" 
Ball:           Maxfli/:taylormade-small:  Maxfli Tour/TP5x

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I play with a group of mostly retired guys.  We will have anywhere from 5 to 18 people on any given day.  We have a laptop with a program that randomly selects the teams and we play a modified Stableford system where everyone has a number of points to make based on historical play.  Everyone puts in $5 ($10 on holidays and weekends) and $2 for scats (the only birdie on a hole).  So the money is pretty small.  Everyone under 60 plays from the regular tees, everyone from 60 to 69 plays from the senior tees and everyone 70 and older plays from the front tees (ladies or beginner tees).  If your ego won't let you move up when the time comes, you are only hurting your team.  And a 70 year old has a much better chance of making birdies from the front tees than the senior tees.  All this is to say, start playing a team game that makes everyone's score count and I bet you'll find folks see the light.

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Callaway Epic Max 11 wood

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We have five sets of tees (back to front, Gold/7,005, Blue/6550, White/6150, Silver/5600, and Red/5200). There are also defined combo tees between every set of tee boxes (Red/Silver, Silver/White, White/Blue, and Blue/Gold). The most popular tees are by far the combo tees. I'm still happy to play Blue, Blue/White, or White, depending upon who I'm playing with, and the time of year (in the winter, we often have NEGATIVE roll, even on drivers....).

Creating these combos has taken a lot of pressure off of people who were playing too far back. We even contest our club championship from the Blue/Gold combo tees (we have some pretty good senior players who can still compete from 6850, but not from 7000+)

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I think gender bias greatly contributes to the issue.   Here's what's my guys see on the scorecard :

Hole                            1         2        3        4...18      Total Yardage

Blue                          399   378    335       ...           6565

Combo                     372    349   335       ...           6293

White                        372   349    307       ...           6026

Men's Handicap       3        7          9          ...

Bob                                                                                             

Charlie                                                                                        

Tim                                                                                             

Steve                                                                                          

Red                           334    319     283        ...          5286

Ladies Handicap      7          9        13          ...

So, according to the scorecard, the red tees are the ladies tees - period. The GM is a great guy.  I'm going to talk to him about it and ask for his advice.  Adding a set of senior tees would be great.  I'm not sure how feasible that would be. 

 

 

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